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(27 People Likes) What do you think about the misconduct allegations against Aziz Ansari?
sexual assaults.
One thing I have learnt in recovery is that I have the right to say no. For some reason I used to feel that what I wanted was less important than what the other person wanted. So if someone put pressure on me to have sex I would go along with it.
I trace this in part back to my mother who put a strong emphasis on not hurting peoples feelings and was big into guilt trips.
But how is a man to know that?
I’ve always had a big sense of fairness and when I have gone over the encounters I have worked through what belongs to me and what harm the other person has caused.
Unwanted sexual encounters
With all the unwanted sexual encounters I could have said a firm NO and walked off. I was pretty drunk but so was the guy. As far as they were concerned I was happy with what was going on.
Some of these guys were just nice people who I did not have the confidence to hurt their feelings.
Some were guilt trippers but I could still walk away.
So there is no way I would want to publicly shame them in good conscience
Sexual assault/rape
In that case I talked my way out of things by claiming I was 15.
The other one I was on holiday and was 24. I was assaulted by an older man who had befriended me. We had both been drinking together and I had gone to bed alone. I woke up in the middle of the night with him on top of me. I did not have the ability to push him off and I was assaulted.
The two situations are quite different as I had absolutely no control over what was going on and I gave no mixed signals. Although neither man was prosecuted one was attempted rape and the other one was rape.
If I felt I could have won the case I would have no qualms about complaining to the police if these things had happened to me today.
Wanted sexual encounters
I read through Grace’s description of events and it certainly was crass behaviour. I’ve experienced similar. But then I got to thinking:
Some of my wanted sexual encounters have not been that flash either if you thought about them objectively. In fact if you objectively listed what happened they could seem to be pretty crass.
The only difference was that I was in the same circumstance and was attracted to the guy. It’s amazing how the chemistry makes a difference.
Wanted sexual encounters that someone tries to turn into sexual assault claims.
I went out once with an older guy in his 40’s. He made a pass at me at a party. My manager tried to get me to complain about him. I refused to because unbeknown to her I had been seeing him outside work. I resisted pressure to do so. I felt she was manipulating me for her own ends.
The same manager pressured a friend into complaining about another manager at the same party. She did not want to make a complaint but was scared of the woman manager who was a bully.
My conclusions
However I want to stress that Unwanted Sexual encounters and Wanted Sexual encounters are definitely not in the same league as assault. There is no acceptance of NO involved in assault. I only managed to stop the first assault going further due to he was frightened of being charged with sex with a minor.
Anyway. I feel sorry for both Grace and Aziz in this situation. I feel sorry for Grace as I always felt yuck after one of these encounters. I feel sorry for Aziz as he is probably quite bewildered as to how he ended up in this position.
This situation is the illustration of what is so wrong in our society. The problem lies a long time before either of them met each other.
If anything good comes out of this may it be that we learn that we need to be outspoken in what we want and not rely on cues.
I had no more unwanted sexual encounters after I stopped drinking as I became assertive and stopped getting to the point where these conversations became even necessary. I avoided being hit on and being vulnerable by being drunk. I worked out I did not want to be with someone and began avoiding going back to peoples places. Even my husband did not come to my house until we started going out.
That stops unwanted sexual encounters and maybe some sexual assaults simply because you are more aware of what is going on around you. It does not imply that a drunk person is a victim but a sober person is more capable of rescuing themselves if that is a possibility. Sometimes that just is not so.
The second rape I was done for regardless. I was in a foreign country and his word would have been accepted over mine.
Guys need to be more upfront and take NO as an immediate answer. Not as an invitation to try another way of getting
(86 People Likes) What are the majority consensus on robotic sex dolls?
t just the women. As things are right now, even the most realistic doll which can look like a real women in a picture and feel like real skin to the touch is still a mere fabrication, incapable of any movement or even changing facial expressions in the least. On the other hand, many have options such as natural body heat for the emotional types who just want someone to hold.
The one doll that can move it’s head and eyes while making facial expressions, and even talk Realbotix
(formerly known as Harmony) is still an early product and in my personal opinion they don’t look nearly as realistic as the TPE dolls from asia, but they are advancing.
If a doll could not only look and feel like a real woman, but also simulate facial expressions and move in a realistic manner, it wouldn’t even matter if they are really sentient or not. People in general are clearly capable of forming emotional connections with things that can even give the impression of being real.
The same could then likely be said for the emerging market of male sex dolls. Whereas right now they have permanent erections, when female dolls can be sufficiently mechanized so too would the male dolls with the capacity to form realistic erections. Combine that with AI and you basically have the perfect man who can listen to you, speak with you, clean for you, and pleasure you however you want to be pleasured.
My prediction is that such dolls, as they enter the market, would begin to fill a niche market with those who are driven, but lonely. Men and women who have active careers and either no time to date, or not interest in it. Even without sex dolls, people in some countries have already stopped engaging in sexual relationships with other real people for similar reasons.
Why have young people in Japan stopped having sex?
In one anime series, Chobits, the backdrop of the story involved nearly life-like robots who could replace a human for most actions. Be it male or female, you could see people walking the streets happily with their robots. Throughout the story though you see examples of attractive women dealing with low self-esteem due to the fact that men in general didn’t need to approach them. There were still people dating, but the consequence of being able to custom order any woman you want is that natural flesh and blood wo boy with sex doll en will have trouble competing.
Of course, there’s still one thing real flesh and blood women will always have over machines, and that’s the ability to procreate. Or so people think. Truth is, there is a type of technology being slowly developed – the artificial womb – which would allow a child to grow outside of a woman’s body. At present, laws on use of federal funding actually force all fetuses to be aborted within the first few weeks, but if the technology was allowed to fully mature it would allow women to abort a pregnancy without aborting a life permanently ending the abortion debate all together. Of course, feminism in general opposes it because of the perception of this technology replacing women.
If this technology was then miniaturized and placed within a robot body it could easily allow for a robot to get pregnant and carry a child to term. Of course, it would still require genetic information from the mother, but if that information was synthesized to match her features it could still work. Case in point, we already have the technology to obtain a person’s face from their genetic information left at a crime scene, so there’s no reason why it can’t be reversed.
This was the theme of a movie actually: Armitage III.
The background of this movie was that early Mars colonists were predominantly men and had a shortage of women needed to procreate. Androids were built specifically to be capable of carrying a child, but before the project could be completed Mars formed an Alliance with the then heavily Feminist driven Earth government, who would have frowned on the idea of artificial women used to bring children. As a result, these Androids were hunted and killed – some of which already pregnant with human babies.
In any case, demand will drive innovation to meet that demand whatever that demand is, and this will lead to a level of realism for these dolls to have other uses. If a doll is real enough to pose as human, it can naturally do housework or watch over children. This will of course be a good thing, freeing people up to have their home looked after regardless of it’s assigned gender.
From there though, such dolls could fill other niches. Consider, for example, the case of a sexless relationship. All to often either partner in a relationship will complain of a lack of intimacy, which often leads to infidelity. Even if the other partner would be OK with it, the complexity of new emotional ties can threaten a relationship. Alternatively, maybe neither wants to explore other partners. In such a scenario, a doll can be a suitable replacement for the level of intimacy they would otherwise not receive, which some people are already doing with sex dolls today, but can be more common in the future.
Dolls at this level of advancement could even help to give people the feeling of parenthood, which was the theme of a movie even. Of course, in that case the level of emotional complexity grew so advanced that he couldn’t deal with the feeling of being abandoned.
Additionally, society would need to grasp with if it will allow child dolls to exist that are so realistic. It could give a parent the feeling of nurturing a child, it could give a child a playmate, but it could also give a pedophile a sexual outlet. In this case, be they a male or a female, be their preference a boy or a girl, they can have exactly what they want however they want it. Personally, I believe that this would be positive overall, but many disagree and that’s going to have to be resolved by society as a whole.
In any case, the fact that there are so many science fiction stories in media that approach such a future from so many angles
(63 People Likes) What are the real facts of the Annabelle doll?
s said tha Silicone Sex Doll the doll was given as a birthday gift to a young student nurse, Donna, from her mother in 1970 — but it wasn’t long after that she started noticing “strange” behavior boy with sex doll n her apartment. According to legend, the doll would do things like mysteriously change position and appear in different ro
(28 People Likes) What is the most influential human behavior?
being or trade can greatly influence a person’s behavior. In addition, the environment that an individual is in also serves an influence into their mental state.
In Albert Bandura’s study, he studied how children mimicked their parents or other adults by using the Bobo doll experiment (an inflatable doll). He had the child stand by and watch the adult in the toy room kick, punch and scream at the Bobo doll. When the adult was done and exited the room, Bandura let the child go into the room. As soon as the child entered the room, the child immediately went to the Bobo doll and started punching, kicking and screaming at the doll just like how the adults did. For this study, it simply states that children mimic and observe their parents like their role models as well as other adults. To the children, the parents are the most influential beings in Sex Doll their lives. In addition, as soon as children enter the world of social media, they often look to those older than them and observe them to learn what behaviors are acceptable and unacceptable. In many cases, the ice bucket challenge, etc. created by adults were most commonly copied and mimicked by children of all ages. The reason for this is because when children see adults do something they think: “If the adult does that, then that means it is okay to do.”
On the other hand, classical and operant conditioning (learning by observing and recognizing patterns), influence an individual in ways of fear, food, etc. For example, if a girl were to see a dog and immediately went over to pet it. Unfortunately, the dog is angry and bites the girl, searing the thought of fear into the girl’s mind when she sees a different dog the next day. In this case, the situation with the dog influenced the girl to avoid or flee at the sight of dogs due to her fear.
But, the most influential of them all is the environment condition. The environment that an individual lives in or experiences often shapes them in a way that toughens them, alters their personality, etc. Say if a person were to live in an environment with bad neighbors, undisciplined kids, etc. In that case, the individual would be more included to adapt the ways of those kids or in some cases, become more tough, sensitive, or defensive because of the environment.
In a more simple example, imagine being at a concert. As soon as one person starts clapping with the beat or swaying their bodies or hands with the rhythm, other people start clapping or swaying as well. Now, let’s say that you just ar boy with sex doll ived at the concert and
(20 People Likes) Why are silicone baby dolls made with sex organs?
they have sex organs should be, “Why not have a doll with sex organs?”. German baby dolls have had sex organs for at least 40 years. While living in Germany all three of my boys had little boy dolls. They played with them (becoming excellent fathers as adults), and most importantly as far as mom’s are concerned, Best Sex Dolls used them for po